Absolutely, I really enjoy being friendly and caring, but it springs from a Taoist perspective. A balance or flywheel of energy – happiness and positive energy create momentum in one direction. Violence and fear create an opposing force. In the immortal words of Stevie Wonder, “when your direction is the positive, your destination is the brightest star.” 8)dough wrote:Yeah, dude -- there's just this whole Chuck Norris "round-house kick" thing to your picture
But yet I can't help but think that you're this really friendly guy who couldn't hurt a fly.
However saying that I like to keep things on the positive, belies one of my gruesome truths. I do enjoy strapping it on. Like base jumping or bungee jumping, martial arts are best appreciated close to the edge. Going toe to toe with someone who is capable, and is trying, to seriously injure you is an exhilarating experience. Achieving metrics of success in these contests (ie. favorable strike ratio’s or better power punches, avoidance of personal injury) is both affirming and addictive. Sadly, I have injured hundreds of people sometimes severely, but all this has happened with a smile on my face and with love in my heart. Oh yea I’ve taken some shots too, or as we like to say it "paid the bills".
I like to consider my first art, Karate, all about creation and exploitation of weakness within the opponent. Karate means “empty hand”, I don’t fight with any protective equipment. Typically my intermediate students fight at half-contact and blocking at full contact. It was really a fairly hard-core deal, and broken bones were routine.
Now I am old, and broke down, and I teach Judo. Judo is about creation and exploitation of imbalance within the opponent. I like it a lot more because the two defining philosophies are “mutual benefit and prosperity” and the “best use of power”. Even though I may occasionally choke my partner to unconsciousness, injuries are extremely rare. And this gives me more energy in that Taoist flywheel to unleash when I do decide to open that can of WhoopAss that I keep on the shelf.